Tecla

New to the music scene Tecla is a pop artist whose blend of beats and synth makes a tropical and very strange electro-pop sound. Her song "Let's Play Dress Up" uses some interesting choices of voice changes, with a chipmunk sounding voice over a deep bass during the verses. Her voice, when not being auto-tuned to a different type of sound, is not my favorite, but maybe you'll like it.

Watch this video for her song We Got the Beat where she talks about the way her album came about and what it's like being a female in the "sausage fest" industry of music.

Summer's Fading But Your Tan Isn't

Just because summer is fading doesn't mean your tan has to. I'm not the biggest sun worshipper nor a self tanning expert but a nice tan does have its perks. Recently gifted Lindsay Lohan's Sevin Nyne tanning mist and lotion, I thought I'd take it for a spin. Lo (pun intended) and behold my skin is glowing and compliments ensue daily. This stuff really works! And as an added bonus the line is not tested on animals and available at sephora.com.

LLadies Fashion Scoop: Slap Happy!

There are some trends that resurface from past decades that should have remained where they were once forgotten. However, every-so-often, there are those key moments when one pops up that you can’t help but love.

I am sure we all remember the joy we once felt when the slap bracelet was introduced. Hours of fun, slapping, snapping, trading with (and occasionally hurting) your friends.

Well, the fun can be had once again! TKO watches created their own version called the “Slapper.” The silicone rubber “slap bracelet” style watch has interchangeable bands and capsules to create an abundance of looks.

TKO designer states, “Fashion trends prove to be cyclic. So I thought to myself, I loved slap bracelets growing up as a kid, why not incorporate that into a watch?” Well we are glad you did! Put a little fun into functionality.

The Slapper retails for $50 and accessory packs with three different color bands and capsules are available for $35- 16 looks under $100!

So put on some of your favorite early 90s tunes—and start slapping.

https://www.tkowatches.com/shop/watches/Slappers-52-1.html

LLadies Fashion Scoop: Shopping for a Cause!

The concept of guiltless shopping is a bit unheard of. Truth-be-told, we can all justify our purchases-Jimmy Choos NEVER go on sale, I have to buy them. I will eat Ramen noodles for a week so I can get this bag, promise! It is the last one on the rack, so that must equal destiny. I havn’t bought a dress in ages (at least over a week). I deserve this for working so hard today. Any of those excuses sound remotely familiar?

How about we make it even easier for you? On Fashion’s Night Out, there are a number of shops that are putting proceeds of sales to some amazing charities. Here are a few highlights for you. So get out there and spend some of your hard-earned cash and flaunt your receipts proudly!

Must Attend Early Alert: BCBGMAXAZRIA: In partnership with The Daily at its flagship boutique on Fifth Ave. from 8-10 pm, the first 50 guests in attendance will receive a Runway Survival Kit, featuring BCBGMAXAZRIA accessories and beauty essentials. Guests will enjoy complimentary champagne and hors d’oeuvres as they shop the current Fall 2010 collection. Attendees will also have the chance to meet Lubov and Max Azria, who will honor five women from the New York Police and Fire Widows’ and Children’s Benefit Fund. In addition, guests can enter for their chance to win a complete look from the Spring 2011 collection, shown just hours prior to the celebration.

461 Fifth Avenue New York NY 10017

All about Naomi at Dolce&Gabbana: Join Dolce & Gabbana and Naomi Campbell to celebrate the 25th Anniversary of her career. A collection of limited edition t-shirts featuring Naomi Campbell portrayed by some of the greatest contemporary photographers and signed by Naomi will be available for purchase*. Special surprise performance choreographed by Laurie Ann Gibson at 7:30pm and 9:15pm. Music by DJ Lindsey. T-shirts sold exclusively at the Dolce & Gabbana boutique will support Fashion for Relief, a charity founded by Naomi to raise funds in the fashion world in time and places of need *T-shirts will be signed from 6:30pm to 9:45pm

825 Madison Avenue at 69th Street New York NY 10021

Cool DJ Alert at Edun: In conjunction with Scoop in their Meatpacking District "swing" store, check out the EDUN Pop Up Shop for the night. Jaleel from TV on the Radio will be DJing, with a special performance by the BLK JKS from South Africa. Enjoy a scoop of ice cream from an ice cream truck on site. Special guest DJs will be riding their bikes and participants will be encouraged to ride their bikes as well. Limited edition accessories from Kenya exclusive for Scoop will be on sale as well . Gift with purchase. 7 to 11 pm.

86 Franklin st 5th Floor New York NY 10013

Housing Works Thrift Shop: All 10 New York City based shops will host a Fall Preview event throughout the month. They are re-stocking their thrift shops with the best designer fashion, unique furniture, and rare artwork finds and sell them for a fraction of the price to benefit the largest AIDS services organization in the nation. See www.housingworks.org/events for complete event details or shop on www.shophousingworks.com Housing Works - Fighting to end AIDS and homelessness. Stop by the Housing Works Chelsea thrift shop on FNO from 5pm to 8pm for their annual Fall Preview Sale. Shop brand names from Marc Jacobs, DVF, Elie Tahari and much more 50-70& off retail pricing!

594 Broadway, Suite 700 New York NY 10012

The Biggest Look Book shoot EVER at RACHEL Rachel Roy: Join Rachel Roy and supermodel Jessica Stam as they host the city's biggest look book shoot on Fashion's Night Out – exclusively at Macy’s Herald Square! RACHEL Rachel Roy, Level 2 6-8pm Get styled and snapped at Macy's wearing head to toe RACHEL Rachel Roy and every shopper that participates, $1 will be donated to charity: water, a non-profit organization bringing clean, safe drinking water to people in developing nations. AND check out Rachel and Jessica’s capsule collection available only on 9/10 before it’s officially released in October!

Macy's Herald Square 151 West 34th Street New York NY 10001

Customize Your Own Bag at Salvatore Ferragamo: Celebrating Creative Director, Massimiliano Giornetti's first women’s collection with the launch of the highly anticipated W bag. Designed in the ‘70s exclusively for the House matriarch, Mrs. Wanda Ferragamo, the bag was the centerpiece of the Fall runway show. Elettra Weidemann, Alek Wek, Caroline Winberg, Ashley Wick and Arden Wohl along with the Whitney Museum of American Art invite you to discover all things W. Guests are invited to customize their very own W bag enjoying libations and music by Nick Cohen. A percentage of sales will benefit the Whitney Museum of American Art.

655 Fifth Avenue New York NY 10022

Sue Rock Originals: They manufacture fabulous women' s separates made from reclaimed fabrics from the interior design industry, fashion industry and vintage fabrics. For Fashion Night Out they will be holding an in store fashion, appetizers, Machine Knitting Exhibition, and deep discounts on our summer collection. All purchases over $100 include your choice of Fall accessory! All proceeds go to supporting our work with survivors of Domestic Violence.

1069 Bergen Street Brooklyn NY 11216

Asha Veza will be launching a capsule collection of cocktail dresses created in collaboration with their partners in Bosnia Hercegovina. All proceeds will fund programs supporting economically and socially vulnerable women in Bosnia Hercegovina and India.

69 Fifth Ave Brooklyn NY 11217

Modern Mamahood: Confession Challenge Results

Me and RJ in the morning the other day;
Disconnected from my phone and connected to our moment

I promise this will be the last post in awhile about my personal motherhood experience, but I wanted to follow up on my recent post. Last week, I confessed that I worked with my 13mo old child around far too much and challenged myself to not work around her for one week. The results are in!

The Results:
I stayed true to my commitment 80% of the time. For the most part, I left the iPhone in another room or in the diaper bag while I spent time with Regina Jade -- out of sight and out of mind! I also started waking up about an hour before she does to read and reply to urgent emails or writing (like I'm doing right now).

Yesterday morning, I did have to transfer photos and video from my phone for a client, which was still pretty minor compared to writing articles and sending emails in her presence.

The good thing is, I missed absolutely nothing by waiting until she was down for her nap to work. I also felt much more present in general, which was my goal.

The Conclusion:
With the exception of deadlines that are in the red zone, or "fires" that need to be put out, working with your child around is a lot like checking emails in real-time; you feel like you are getting ahead, but you're really not.

I've also realized that because I work from home right now and full-time daycare isn't in the budget yet, there are going to be times when balancing work and baby will be very hard. I've concluded that this doesn't make me a bad mother and every family has their challenges they get through together.

Much of what I learned from this experience is to let go of trying to be the "perfect mama" because I'm exactly what she needs just the way I naturally am (minus the iPhone4 screen stuck to my pointer-finger). I think as moms, we always want to do better, which is a good thing, but we also need to feel strong and confident that if our child is thriving and smiles often, we are already doing a great job.

The Modern Mamahood Column on the Ladies Lotto Blog:

As our Ladies Lotto community grows and evolves, we now have quite a few mamas and mamas-to-be! The LL Modern Mamahood weekly column presents the issues and products related to being a Ladies Lotto Mama. Blogger: Lana Perry

Feeling Guilty?

Gucci's video/commerical for their new Guilty fragrance just arrived and, of course, it has the requisite hot actors, dark lighting and cheesy catchphrase at the end about seduction or whatnot...but here's what made me feel "guilty" about further snarky comments:

1. It's directed by Frank Miller
2. It was filmed at Fellini's studio in Italy
3. The song that's playing, "Strangelove,"is originally by Depeche Mode but covered by Friendly Fires
4. The creative director got the idea for a Guilty fragrance from Barbra Streisand's 1980 song, "Guilty"
5. The bottle IS pretty Gucci-fabulous-flashy-gorgeous

Oh, and I'll take that Gucci bracelet on Queen Sophie-Ann's wrist, thank you very much.

Lacee Swan's "Do You Love Me?" Summer Rooftop Blowout

Previously featured artist, Lacee Swan, will be debuting a new collection of art and apparel that draws inspiration from fashions elite and celebrates the essence of the downtown darlings, cordially invites you to a summer mixer and fundraiser. On August 28^th from 8pm to 12am, Lacee Swan will be hosting an intimate gathering to raise funds for her upcoming art show, Downtown Darlings, on a discreet Brooklyn rooftop.

Specialty cocktails will be served from Fair. Vodka - the worlds first Quinoa-based Vodka but also the first line of Fair Trade Certified spirits (www.fairtradespirits.com). Music will be provided by fashion DJ trio La Chipettes.  Join us for this fun evening as we support this rising star. 

To RSVP please email rsvp@laceeswan.com by Saturday, August 28 @ 12 PM.

Saturday, August 28th

8 PM - 12 AM

694 Metropolitan Ave #308

Brooklyn, NY

Graham Stop off the L train

$10 Donation at the door

Drinks provided by Fair. Vodka and Grolsch Beer

http://www.laceeswan.com

See you there Ladies!!

Vatooing: Would You Do It?

I am curious to get some honest feedback from young, sophisticated and trendy ladies about the latest spa trend in "vaginal" art: vatooing or, as Gawker likes to call it - twattooing.

Just watch:



In the video embedded below, three chicks just like you and I get on camera to receive a temporary tattoo on their pubis at Completely Bare Spa in New York. One of them, who chooses to sport a nasty spiderweb, is trying to get a point across: "nobody's been down there in a while." Meanwhile, the vatoo technician insists there are some sexual positions you'll want to avoid if you'd like the treatment to last.

If pussy adornment is not designed for seduction, then what's the point, you may ask?

With vatooing placing as #9 on Google trending tonight, it's safe to say that the fascination towards women's new feminine intimate art is undeniable.

My question is... would you do it?

PS. Let all of us take a second to remember that the vagina is a specific internal structure, and that nobody is actually getting tattooed down there. Source: Wikipedia

Who cares? Bryce Gruber, vagina expert and fab lifestyle publicist, replied candidly to my doctor client on my Facebook wall as he pointed out the anatomical facts: "Andre, we know where our pussies are. It's just better for googling :)"

VIA

The Black Girl Project Premiere and Fundraiser

Super Hussy Media

presents
The Black Girl Project Screening and Fundraiser
Friday August 27, 2010

A few weeks ago Ladies Lotto interviewed founder, writer, producer, director of The Black Girl Project, Aiesha Turman. This Friday, August 27 at 7 pm the film will debut in The Spike Lee Screening Room at Long Island University, Brooklyn Campus. For ticket information visit http://bgpbk.eventbrite.com/. To learn more about the film and fundraiser visit www.blackgirlproject.org.

Ladies Unite!

Lenox Davis

Lotions & Potions

I took a trip to Sephora last week after running out of foundation and found myself slipping into the Twilight Zone that is a cosmetics store. It's really easy to spend a lot of money on things you didn't even know existed, like "(insert name here) refiner" "filler" or "reducer." I love party goody bags that have tons of things like this to try out, but I usually stick to the same routine: Dr.Bronners, jojoba oil, shea butter and Kiehl's Lip Balm #1 in Coconut. After seeing TSA crush many a travelers dreams, it's better to keep it simple.

Recently though, I added 2 products that couldn't be more opposite. Terresentials Pure Earth Hair Wash and Glytone Mild Gel Wash. The hair wash is a shampoo made from Moroccan clay, it's literally a mud you coat your hair with that bonds to dirt and rinses clean. The clay strips hair of the thickeners and coating agents from regular shampoo. It comes in different fragrances, (they all pretty much smell like patchouli to me). The only drawback is that it's only available in few shops. Apparently stores don't want to stock Terresentials because it makes all the other chemical-filled products look too bad.

On the other hand, I use Glytone and its ALL chemicals. It has the best Glycolic Acid face wash I've ever tried. It's not too strong but it does a great exfoliation job with my combination skin. The drawback? Prescription and pricey.



My first choice is always natural, I really believe that what we need we can pretty much get from the earth, but I'm always open to new products. Call me a cosmetic double agent.

Flashback: Ladies First

Ladies First - Queen Latifah feat. Monie Love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeMWCVjco78

Laura Warshauer plays the Canal Room in NYC tonight!

Ladies Lotto caught up with New Jersey based singer-songwriter Laura Warshauer before her show in New York City.

What made you get into music and when did you start playing?
I got into music very naturally. I've been singing for as long as I can remember, and my Dad suprised me with an electric guitar at age 12 because he thought it would be great if I could accompany myself. I started writing songs soon after that, inspired by Alanis Morissette's "Ironic" and Joan Osborne's "One of Us".

What's your favorite thing about music?
I love the sense of freedom, self-expression and the ability to connect with people.

Have you come across any challenges as a woman in the music industry?
I've certainly come across a lot of challenges, but they haven't necessarily been because I'm a woman.

Do you have any advice for other women out there trying to make it as musicians?
I think it's important to know who you are and then stay true to that.

You can check out her tunes at her myspace and get tickets to see her live at The Canal Room at 285 West Broadway at Canal Street in New York City tonight!

LLadies Fashion Scoop: Bon Appétit Café—Food Meets Fashion!

Two of my favorite things are coming together—delicious food and amazing fashion—all in one place! The genius that is Bon Appétit magazine has found a way to make Fashion Week even better with their Bon Appétit Café™. From September 12-16, at the new home of Fashion Week, New York’s Lincoln Center, you can get breakfast, lunch, snacks and even indulge in a glass of wine from some of your favorite celebrity chefs. Not going to any shows? No problem! Do some fantastic people watching because this treat is open to the public!

Get your tastebuds ready for extraordinary coffee and pastries from Michael Laiskonis (Le Bernardin), Matt Lewis and Renato Poliafito (Baked NYC) and Christina Tosi (Momofuku Milk Bar) served from 9:00 AM to 10:00 AM.

Then, in between fashion show hopping, satisfy any craving at the grab-and-go café with savory specialty soups, salads, sandwiches and sweet treats and desserts from 11:00 AM-3:00 PM. Celebrity chefs include:

Rick Bayless (Frontera Grill, Topolobampo)

Cat Cora (Bon Appétit Executive Chef)

John DeLucie (The Lion)

Emeril Lagasse (Emeril’s, NOLA, Delmonico’s Steak House)
Marc Murphy (Landmarc, Ditch Plains)
Missy Robbins (A Voce)
Bill Telepan (Telepan)
Laurent Tourondel (BLT Market)
Michael White (Marea, Convivio)

After your hard day at the office or running in your heels—relax, rejuvenate and get a little loose at their wine bar and taste exquisite small plates featuring recipes from Mario Batali’s Otto and Daniel Boulud’s restaurants, from 5:00 – 9:00 p.m.

So head on over to the Café, located at 64^th and Columbus. Fashionistas need food too!

For the latest information, please visit http://www.bacafe.com/.

Karaoke Killed the Cat Hits SF on August 23rd - Do Not Miss Out!

If you are in SF on August 23rd - Karaoke Killed the Cat is NOT to be missed!

Karaoke Killed the Cat is ready to holler to the hills of San Francisco. On Monday August 23rd will be showing the Elbo Room what it's all about. Karaoke Killed the Cat is coming to San Francisco for the first time!

Karaoke Killed the Cat at Elbo Room
Monday, Aug 23rd
647 Valencia Street,
San Francisco, CA
9pm $5

Here's the rundown:

Karaoke Killed the Cat is the infamous New York City karaoke dan...ce party for people who never thought they'd like karaoke. Hosted by the frenzied duo of Chris Goldteeth and Lord Easy, they have been changing the world's view of what karaoke can be since 2003. Karaoke Killed the Cat brings together equal parts vocal chord shattering sing-along and booty popping dance party. Mix in sprinkles of crowd surfing, choreography and feats of strength; the result is a party unlike any other. As the show draws from the unchecked intensity and fervent enthusiasm of its patrons, Karaoke Killed the Cat becomes just as fun to watch, as it is to participate in. Forget about sounding good, this is about going hard and having the time of your life.

http://www.sfstation.com/karaoke-killed-the-cat-e982321

A fun video clip to peak your interest:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_fY8S2BZg4

LLadies Fashion Scoop: Pop-UP!

With products and fashion lines changing each season (if not daily), why can’t the stores we shop in mix it up at bit too? I am sure you have stumbled upon some amazing store in your neighborhood, appearing unannounced—quickly drawing in the trendy crowds—only to disappear or morph into something else the next day. Well, we have some gems that you shouldn’t miss—and be careful because these stores are only here for a brief time!

For those of you who tire of your handbags, shoes or even boyfriends each season—these pop-up stores should put a little pep in your step and liven up any dull day.

Junkprints

66 Washington Ave. 2nd Flr Brooklyn NY 11205

http://www.junkprints.com/

Junkprints is Brooklyn’s indie designer of clothing, accessories and (my personal favorite) these amazing art wallets! They are hosting their very first open studio shopping event on FNO. Go and see the new space, meet the designer and shake your groove thang to the resident DJ. Bonus: door prizes and maybe some fancy celeb types!

Caravan Stylist Studio

Sky Room 330 W 40th Street (btw 8th and 9th) New York NY 10018

Caravan Stylist Studio will host a one night only pop up shop in the cabanas at Sky Room, NYC's highest rooftop lounge, in collaboration with Fashion’s Night Out. The shop will offer cool vintage finds from around the world - including artwork, clothing, albums and jewelry - curated by Josh Madden and a selection of Junk Food t-shirts. Sip on specialty cocktails by Baileys and sample Sky Room’s Designer Dessert menu, which features dishes inspired by Rebecca Taylor, Yeohlee, Nanette Lepore, Rebecca Minkoff, Katie Gallagher, Walter and Miguelina. 9pm-Midnight

Piperlime

93 Mercer Street New York NY 10012

http://piperlime.gap.com/

Poperlime is having their FIRST EVER pop-up store opening in SoHo on Thursday, September 9th. Check out their most favorite fall trends, Rachel Zoe's picks and exclusive styles you won’t find anywhere else. Then go AGAIN for Fashion's Night Out on Friday, September 10th from 6pm-11pm. Take photos and get autographs from the cast of Project Runway, and get styling advice from Rachel Zoe! Bonus: Special treats while they last!

RS POP Shop

501 Lexington Avenue at the Roger Smith Hotel New York NY 10017

http://www.rspopshop.com/

RS POP is a social media POP UP Shop- highlighting emerging designers and artists. On Sept. 10^th, meet celebrity stylist Ricardo Rojas, who is creating a pop-up salon for guests to get styled for the night. Dolita Paris will be doing a live runway show in their gallery at 7pm. Chow down on complimentary POP chips and mini cupcakes by Sprinkle Splash bakery and sip on IZZE Sparking Juice throughout the night while also getting makeup tips by Makeup by Mojica. Dolita Paris line will be available for sale.

Grand Central Terminal

Grand Central Terminal celebrates Fashion Night Out in historic Vanderbilt Hall with an exciting event including food, cocktails, a live fashion show and fashions from the Grand Central Shops. Go to www.grandcentralterminal.com for more details.

Modern Mamahood: Confession Time!

Evidence of me trying to mix computers and parenting -- no one looks happy.

Well first of all, we all know that the term "good parenting" is highly subjective. But for the sake of this conversation, our operational definition of "good parenting" is being present when with your child, meeting their needs in a way that maintains their trust, teaching what to do and what not to do, playing and stimulating.

I'm bringing this topic up because it's something I struggle with myself due to my professional lifestyle and I have a feeling other LL moms may be able to relate. Sometimes it feels like the work never ends, and sometimes it literally doesn't. Even when I'm "not working", my phone is still attached to my hand as I try to reply to an email in the 40-seconds I have while my 13mo old is distracted.

But there's more. I work from home with self-made flexible hours and when the work I'm doing isn't as demanding, I'll chill with my laptop and the baby to get more interaction time while she's in the care of someone else (my husband's for example). Or I'll be forced to work while she's in my care because I have a deadline to meet -- like right now.

In both scenarios, the laptop comes between myself and my child. And my child wants to come between me and my laptop, which I know is true because she often sits right between me and it. I have to tell her to stop banging the keys or trying to close the laptop. Then I stop and think to myself, what am I doing? She doesn't understand, and all she's picking up on is that mommy is too distracted to give her full attention to her baby girl. Not good.

With the persistent evolution of computers into all areas of our lives...not only do most households have laptops, but most parents have Smart Phones, and now we have the iPad to make it even easier to be online while lounging -- which to work-a-holic professionals means more ways to incorporate more work into our lives.

So I guess this is a confession of sorts, and a call for improvement from myself and any other mom out there who feels they need to do better in this area. I'm going to vow from this post on to put down my phone and laptop every single time I'm with my child for one week and give my precious child the 100% she deserves. I'll check back in and let you know how it goes (I'll include a Note at the end of my next post).

If anyone else wants to discuss this or join me in this challenge, hit me up or comment!

Disclaimer: 98% of the time I rock as a mom, but the 2% I spend trying to mix work and parenting bothers me. Self-improvement here we come!

The Modern Mamahood Column on the Ladies Lotto Blog:

As our Ladies Lotto community grows and evolves, we now have quite a few mamas and mamas-to-be! The LL Modern Mamahood weekly column presents the issues and products related to being a Ladies Lotto Mama. Blogger: Lana Perry

LLadies Fashion Scoop: Spolight on Bloomingdales for FNO

In 1973, Bloomingdale's capitalized on young and trendy following by embroidering the name "Bloomie's" on the ladies’ panties as part of their intimate apparel launch. Today, Bloomingdales is still the hot spot trendsetters and tastemakers to fill up their “Brown Bags.” On FNO, they are all about the personal appearances. If you are crunched for time and need some one-stop-shopping and designer hobnobbing, then you can’t go wrong at good ‘ol Bloomies.

If you are an Uptown Girl…Head to the 59^th Street location:

Let’s hear it for the boys! Join GQ magazine and HBO’s new series Boardwalk Empire for the Men's Suiting Event: Bloomingdale’s and HBO will recreate Boardwalk Empire’s 1920’s Atlantic City theme at the 59^th Street store. The live action windows along 3^rd Avenue will emulate Atlantic City’s 1920s boardwalk with elaborate sets from the show and special appearances by the actors in the HBO series. Inside the store on the lower level, will be a casino, courtesy of Harrah’s from Atlantic City. Boardwalk Empire’s actors will also make appearances in the casino that night. (Floor/Lower Level from 6 – 8pm)

Get in on the action at the Ping Pong game! Designer Fred Perry sponsors a private room at SPiN and will recreate the room at Bloomingdale’s for a table tennis tournament among designers, celebrities, and fashion journalists. Confirmed table tennis players: Sam Shipley and Jeff Halmos, Spurr and Tommy Fazio, Eunice Lee, Unis designer, Byron Pert and Dexter Pert, WANT designers, Derek Buse, Greg Lawrence, James Gunther, and Luis Fernandez, Number Lab designers, Adam Rappaport, GQ Style Editor, George McCracken, Pierre-Henri Mattout, Doug Burkman and Ben Burkman, Kevin Harter, VP Bloomingdale’s, and more. (Lower Level from 7 – 9pm)

Smile for the Polaroid Wall – Designer Eunice Lee of Unis will snap polaroids of customers that evening and place them on Polaroid Fashion Walls.

Hungry? Shipley & Halmos will arrive at Bloomingdale’s 59^th Street in an ice cream truck and will sell ice cream treats that night with proceeds going toward their charity.

Are you a Downtown Doll? Head to Bloomingdale’s – SoHo

You’re never to young for fashion! Children’s Museum of the Arts leads a fashion-guided workshop in celebration of Fashion’s Night Out. Stop by and decorate a fabric tote bags* to take home using a variety of embellishment techniques including embroidery, appliqué, and trim application. 3-6pm. Y.E.S. Contemporary Sportswear

SUITS AND CIGARS WITH URBANDADDY: Smoking jackets welcome! Hand-rolled cigars, great music and suits-this is a Wall Street man’s dream. Give your guy a break and let him embrace his inner Mad Men persona. In the market for a suit? Get a bonus gift with purchase. 6-8:30pm. The Men’s Store on Lower Level

CONCERT ALERT! Exclusive live performance from indie star, Lana Mir performs songs from her self-titled debut album. 7pm. The Men’s Store on Lower Level

LIPSY LONDON Calling! One of the UK’s hottest high street fashion labels, Lipsy, has officially arrived in Soho. Inspired by the latest runway trends, Lipsy’s show-stopping range of party dresses, pretty daywear, embellished vests and branded signature tracksuits, already has a huge celebrity following. Stop by the Lipsy Shop and let us style you in a Lipsy look that's effortless-cool. Enjoy treats and DJ beats. Receive a gift* with your Lipsy purchase. 6-11pm. Y.E.S. Contemporary Sportswear on Fifth Floor

If you are a roamer…find a designer and even a tango lesson as you explore the stores:

AT 59^TH STREET: Meet Michael Kors; Lela Rose,; David Yurman; Karaoke with designer Kay Unger, Decorating with Tadashi; Tango lessons with Lancome spokesmodels Elettra and Arlenis; Robert Godley, designer for Psycho Bunny; John Varvatos; Too Boot’s designer, Adam Derrick; Iron Chef Morimoto; Thayer Coggin designers- Risom Culler, Stanley J. Friedman Guy Hall are creating signature drinks: "The Fritz", " The Frank", " The Nicolo"; Elie Tahari and more.

AT SOHO STORE: Meet Cynthia Steffe; Jennifer Stock Designs Trunk Show; Zara Terez; Patricia Underwood, Hat Designer

**For more FNO fun go to www.fashionsnightout.com.

How App'd: ChaseMobile with QuickDeposit

The strides developers are making in the world of apps continues to amaze me. The latest app I'm showcasing is ChaseMobile from J.P. Morgan Chase Bank with QuickDeposit for the iPhone. Say goodbye to putting your fingers on those grimy screens and keyboards at the ATM! With ChaseMobile you can check your balance, transfer funds and find ATMs and branches. QuickDeposit is one of my favorite features. You can snap a photo of your check (see the photo above -- taken from my iPhone) and watch in amazement as your deposit is recorded instantly.

In less than five minutes I "scanned" my check and a pending note was placed on my account.

Hold on Mommy Warbucks; your daily online deposits are limited to $1,000 per day or $3,000 per 30-day period.

Available for: iPhone
Version: 2.3.1
Cost: Free
Pro: Banking at your finger tips. No more "eew" moments at the ATM.
Con: All of this at your finger tips stuff is making it easier to couch surf.

MASCULIN / FEMININ Party: Friday, August 20th, Boston, MA

Hello Ladies! 

This Friday I will be joining forces with DJ Volvox + John Barera for MASCULIN/FEMININ.

It's a party that is open to everyone, no RSVP required!

Only requirement is that you "dress to impress with a chance of romance."

We will also have films showing from classic French New Wave director Jean Luc Godard (Masculin Feminin, Breathless, etc.) playing on the front film screen.

Please come by and say hello as I would like to see all the pretty faces of you LL'ers!

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M A S C U L I N / F E M I N I N 

 

+ ALL VINYL SUMMER EDITION +

 

F R I D A Y

20th AUGUST

at Savant Project

9pm-1 am NO COVER

1625 Tremont Street
Take 66/39 Bus OR Green "E" Line to Brigham Circle T Stop
OR Orange Line to Roxbury Crossing

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ITALO/ACID/CHICAGO/HIP-HOUSE/BERLIN & DETROIT TECHNO

FACEBOOK invite link: http://www.facebook.com/johnbarera?ref=search#!/event.php?eid=148117028548340&ref=ts

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musik:

DJs
+VOLVOX+ aka "Boston's Queen of Techno" (Auxiliary Magazine) / MAKE IT NEW / BASSTOWN
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LLadies Fashion Scoop: Spotlight on Bergdorf Goodman on FNO

On September 10^th, giant department stores and cute, little boutiques

all over Manhattan will have appearances by your favorite celebrities and designers for FNO. What you may not have known is all the fun you can have too!

In the store where Doris Day was showered with gifts from Cary Grant in That Touch of Mink and where Carrie Bradshaw and her ladies find solace from the chaos of the big city, you too can have your own moment. Today, we feature the beloved Bergdorf Goodman's evening festivities. So get out your planners and take notes!

Beauty on the Brain? At 6 PM watch judges, Bryan Boy, Catherine Malandrino, Hamish Bowles & Trish McEvoy rate who’s got the best look in the Face-Off Makeup Artist Competition.

LL Next Top Model? Strike a pose at the 5f Photo Studio. Guests will be styled by and photographed with their favorite designers throughout the evening. Pose next to Adam Lippes, Aimee Cho, Carlos Falchi, CD Greene, Elie Tahari, Guiseppe Zanotti, Laurence Dacade, Michael Bastian, Miguelina, Narciso Rodriguez, Naeem & Ranjana Khan, Paige Novick, Pamela Roland, Peter Som, Sherry Cassin and more. This is a perfect memento to take home from your FNO adventures.

Furry fashionistas at BG’s BG’s Best In Show! At 7 pm, designers and their canine companions take the catwalk! With master of ceremonies Robert Verdi and guest judges Monique Lhuillier, Kelly Rutherford and others. Watch Alexandra Vidal, Bibhu Mohapatra, Fabiola Beracasa, Georgina Chapman, James Mischka, John Barrett, Keren Craig, Kimberly McDonald, Lela Rose, Mark Badgley, Reem Acra, Simon Spurr and Thakoon with their fluffy friends.

Desperate for some male attention? Head to “Play With The Pros” at 8 pm. Designers play retro-inspired Rec Room games - foosball, table tennis, and air hockey with professional athletes including equestrian Georgina Bloomberg, speed skater Joey Cheek and Olympian fencer Tim Morehouse.

Need to become one with your inner Liza Minnelli? Join the Karaoke Party at 9 pm with special guest host Patrick McMullan. Sing along with Alexandre Birman, Carlos Falchi, Cynthia Rowley, Eugenia Kim, Jocelyn, Meredith Kahn, Naeem Khan, Nicholas Kirkwood, Nicole Richie, Norma Kamali, Patricia Underwood, Ranjana Khan, Roberto Faraone Mennella, Santiago Gonzalez and more.

Other special appearances by: Jason Wu, Mary J. Blige, Nicole Richie, Simon Spurr, Thom Browne, Tom Ford, Victoria Beckham.

For even more fun at Bergdorf Goodman head to www.fashionsnightout.com. As always, send me your tips and events for all things fashion week at lindsey.benoit@gmail.com. Tomorrow’s highlight: Bloomingdales!

*Times and designer guests subject to change. Photo: Stella Tenant, Credit: Stas Komarovski.

FDA Approves New Pill Giving Us More Choices

The FDA approved ELLA a contraceptive that can prevent pregnancy as many as 5 days after having sex. It took the committee approximately 2 months to approve the medicine which is already used in 22 countries around the globe. Ella follows the approval of Plan B which is less effective.

Read more about Ella here:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/08/13/AR2010081305098.html

Flashback: It Must Have Been Love

It Must Have Been Love - Roxette
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BDLxzDVYKgE

It's Friday I'm in Love!

It's Friday! I'm in love... with the WEEKEND!!

How many out there get summer Fridays?

Gender on The Web

"Forty years ago feminists banished "woman's pages" that featured cooking and other highlights from U.S. newspapers, calling them sexist. But now, 40 years later, they have returned. Long time feminist and regular contributor Ruth Rosen, of the website Talking Points Memo, says the resurgence of the women's sections in modern-day media amounts to "gender apartheid online." Host Michel Martin speaks with Rosen, a journalist and professor at University of California Berkeley, about women's presence in news media today." - NPR

Listen to the broadcast or read the transcript here:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128215434

Modern Mamahood: Behind the Mama - Part 1: Melody Gross

The inspiration for the "Truth Behind the Mama" series
was this hard-hitting "Dear Carolyn" from the Washington Post

Although many mothers best describe their role and day-to-day as "indescribable", Ladies Lotto Modern Mamahood (LLMM) is seeking to demystify what that means for different moms in an effort to create even more cohesion, compassion and connection within our LL community and beyond.

The Modern Mamahood "Truth Behind the Mama" series will delve into the lives of our LL moms. We're looking for answers to some of the questions many women without children seem to ponder. I know I did. Check out the article above for the conversation that sparked this series.

First up is our very own Melody Gross, mother of her son, 22-month old Kamel and full-time Communications + Marketing Associate.

When you are with your child, what exactly is it that you're doing that takes up so much time?
When I am with my son I am often meeting his every need. Whether that's conversation (he is at the "why" stage), emotional, physical (he loves the park) or educational. I'm also trying to squeeze in laundry and food shopping. Kamel has braids so I somehow have to find time to do his hair. Really contemplating a hair cut, but I love his hair. Kamel is a ball of energy so I often have to keep my eyes on him at all times. I try to take him to new places every week so he can experience different things. He also likes going to the movies so that takes up two hours right there. When you have kids you find yourself on the guest list for every family event possible and with it being the summer time you could go to four events in a weekend. Sundays are family day so he spends undivided attention with his dad and I.

Why do you always talk about your kids?
Why do people often talk about the things they love whether their job, a book their reading, a relationship, a movie they saw? Its a natural thing to want to talk about the love of your life. Especially when they are so young and they are changing and developing so rapidly. I try to keep it short and sweet when asked about my son because I know most times people are asking to be polite not because they really want all the details. My response: "oh he's good asking me a thousand questions and wrecking shop."

Ladies Lotto's Melody Gross with her son Kamel

Why is it so hard to make time to hang out with your friends?
I would love to hang out more often. However, any mom who has a child under 3yrs will find it even harder to hang with friends that don't have children. Most people don't want to watch a kid that is not potty trained, diapers freak them out. Its even hard to hang out with friends who have kids. A lot of planning has to be done. Its not often when I can be spontaneous.

Have you ever used your child as an excuse to get out of something socially or for work?
I've used my kid for work. If I use him as an excuse to get out of something socially it really isn't an excuse. Its the truth.

In what ways does having a child change and limit your flexibility when it comes to your work or social life?
I would love to work more but since my son is still rather young I don't want to be away from him too much. Having a child greatly limits my flexibility with everything. Prior to having Kamel I could come and go as a please. Just leave and stay as long as I want. Now, everything I do revolves around him. Whether small or large, every decision I make I think affects my son. Its definitely a task trying to create a balance but one thing or the other will feel neglected, usually the mommy.

How can you best describe what being a mom is like?
Being a mom is exciting, scary, fantastic, heart-wrenching, exhausting, loving, emotional and overall indescribable. I always feel like I can do more and be a better mom. Someone once said to me: we don't teach children, they teach us. I could not agree more. Kamel has taught me so much about being a mom, woman, co-worker, daughter, niece, sister, cousin, granddaughter, girlfriend and friend. The love for and from a child is irreplaceable.

The Modern Mamahood Column on the Ladies Lotto Blog:

As our Ladies Lotto community grows and evolves, we now have quite a few mamas and mamas-to-be! The LL Modern Mamahood weekly column presents the issues and products related to being a Ladies Lotto Mama. Blogger: Lana Perry